I agree that success is based on that. My questions about SE is that currently I'm on this stage of the site. I don't want to miss any stage of the development of course, and don't want to skip any stage also. I've already did my homework on - what and how shall the user see when he comes, what he'll be interested at, why he'll be interested in, when he'll be interested, what more can I give to him that he wasn't expecting, how can I make him a FAN of my site. But as I said, I don't wanna miss the SE traffic, direct traffic will always be smaller part of the traffic in my opinion (based on researching the stats of some sites) and referral traffic I think is more inconsistent. You gotta work for it every single day - post on social sites, comment on sites etc. I want to have such content that actually the visitors will do part of this job for me, because the content is great they really are adoring it.[/b]
All traffic is good traffic (unless your a cat! LOL).
Search engine traffic is indeed important but for some types of sites its often not the best mechanism. Localized sites for example will often attain more traffic (regional) by looking for sites within the region who have traffic and are often very very cheap to advertise on (like local blogs).
Of course as you noted, posting at Social Net sites, forums, blogs which may or may not be considered "Spammin's" can also bring really good traffic spammin's or not. The goal is succeed. The key to this is make sure it doesnt look just like spammin'. Many people come into Portaliz for example and spam and clearly have zero clue as to what they are even doing which is why they will fail irregardless of spammin's. They'd be better off spending their time building a plan instead of wasting their time when in fact they
"WILL" fail because ya can just tell... no brains under the hood.
Link exchanges STILL WORK as well and the keyword here is find RELATED types of sites. In other words, you dont want a competing (even though they really are not) site linking as your traffic might become their traffic. In other words, a link exchange with a "close match" site might actually CREATE that competition.
Mailing lists, cant say enough about em'. Anyone/everyone who sets up a website should have a bulk mailing ability be that for newsletters or this or that. RIght after a site is live, it should be step #2. Treat mailing lists like gold, cuz' they are. If you spam people in a mailing list you become stinky sox. If you do well by them not only will they love you but they will have others loving you as well. When considering mailing list or lists consider who you believe is coming into your site, consider yourself as well... What would YOU want see show up in your email from your site. In other words, step out of the box.
There are other things to keep in mind with mailing lists. MAKE EM' PERSONAL is ALWAYS a grand idea. A newsletter might have all sorts of facts on say economy of travel, what deals are out there etc. But its that PERSONAL piece of content that really needs GRAB EM'. Additionally as I noted... Think of the site visitor. Webmasters should ALWAYS think of visitors to their site as CUSTOMERS whether they are buying anything or not because it is IN FACT what they are. We want them to consume information, consume ad's, buy things, click here or there... ANY WHICH WAY ITS CUT THEY ARE CONSUMERS.
They are also using the Internet (obviously) so that means they generally DIG technology.
While I may be "Kitty Guru" and part of the Cat reporting UFO network (Mewfon)

- One of the very big CONSTANTS I see on the Internut is that most folks dont have a clue how all this technology works. That they are also always looking for fascinating stuff.
So... You can help them LEARN and if you do it with zest' and some ooo' la la fun they will LOOK FORWARD to getting your newsletter or bulk-mails. If you put a little box in with "This week or this months" fascinating links they will be happy as well. I mean links to really GOOD STUFF that they may not even know exists, IMDB etc. and of course lesser places. Links to places that ANYONE/EVERYONE would find a resource, interesting etc. Give them the ability to send you fascinating links for inclusion. People love to be part of things (cept' me of course).
While a website itself has a certain amount of "BE ON POINT" that must be followed it does not mean that ways to draw traffic in need always keep that same vein. The neat thing about the Nut... I mean net is you can try LOTS of things and it costs basically nothing so when trying to get more traffic you can play around with a broader peripheral vision (if you will) in things like mail blasts.